You’re out here grinding and shining the best way you know how. You’re putting in the work, sowing good seeds, displaying all types of feminine magic and power. And yet, you feel like you are not seeing the results you desire, or the level of success you wish to achieve. Before you say or do something that will activate a string of results deterring the outcome you are hoping for, let’s examine what you can do to encourage the manifestation of your blessings naturally flowing to you. Get ready to do some internal work Queen, so you can walk in the destiny you were purposed for.
- Stand firm in the knowledge that you are enough
There is constantly messaging that says you are not enough in some way, shape, or form. Whether it relates to your physical appearance, your skill sets, your motivation, your ambition; you name it, it’s out there and has been or will be said. But it’s so vital that you affirm yourself when these messages come your way, especially when these messages are coming from you. Don’t be your own worst critic. Take those inner negative messages and throw them to wayside. The number one way you can kill your own vibe is not basking in and showing love to yourself despite what is or isn’t going on in your life. If you are not happy and content on your ascent to success, no amount of success will bring the happiness you so deserve or hope for.
- Remove negative sources from your life ASAP
Whether it’s negative beliefs, people, places, habits, or things that are no longer in support of the woman you wish to be, remove them like the weeds that they are. Believe me, on the road to success the last thing you want is a full garden of weeds choking out your light, hopes, and dreams. So if it’s you doubting yourself or speaking death over your situation, your “friends” or “significant other”, a job you hate, or things you said yes to but should have said no to, address it baby so you can fly. Everyone and everything isn’t forever. Be discerning and particular about who you give your time, talents, gifts, love, and space to.
- Get clear on your strengths, calling, value, and invest in yourself in every way imaginable
Once you become clear on what you are divinely purposed for, keep putting in good quality work to achieve your dreams and finding every way possible to invest in yourself. Attend conferences, get comfortable with being uncomfortable, and figure out how your skills can be valuable to you and others. Learn to humbly toot your own horn,(no one will know what you are up to if you keep it a secret), be open to learning and acquiring new skill sets that shape and accompany your vision, and become committed to growth and building your life in new and exciting ways.
- Trust the timing of your process and keep your eyes on the prize.
As long as you keep going, you’re headed to the top. The minute you stop and compare your journey to someone else’s, you take away from the beauty of your story because everyone’s story is different. Your story was divinely shaped to bless the people you are supposed to reach. When your capacity runs out, God has a way of divinely connecting you to the people, resources, and talents you need to reach additional people connected to a greater purpose. Trust the process, keep putting in the work, knowing you are not laboring in vain. In the infamous words of Toni Braxton let it flow.
- Stay consistent, hopeful, confident, and full of faith
The most successful stories are not people with the most resources, but those who stayed consistent and were not afraid but branched out confidently and believed they could, would, and persevered until THEY DID. Results are based on a series of consistent actions that served a specific purpose for a desired end. If you give up you never know how close you would have been to walking into your destiny so stay hopeful, believe in yourself, have faith and know everyday you get up and do what was placed in your heart to do you are already a success! Your success is right in reach Queen, so keep operating in your authority and reach out and grab it!